🧭 Context of Proverbs 31

The chapter closes the Book of Proverbs with instructions given to King Lemuel by his mother, advising him on wise and just leadership, followed by a poetic acrostic tribute to the virtuous woman—an ideal of godly womanhood known for strength, wisdom, diligence, and kindness.


Structure and Summary

SectionVersesSummary
Advice to King Lemuel: Leadership and Justice1–9Warnings against women who lead kings astray; calls for defending the poor and needy.
The Virtuous Woman: Character and Deeds10–31Detailed acrostic praising the diligent, wise, kind, and God-fearing woman.

🧠 Verse-by-Verse Breakdown by Theme


🟢 1. Wise Leadership and Justice (Verses 1–9)

“Don’t spend your strength on women like those who ruin kings.” (v.3)
“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves.” (v.8)

  • King Lemuel’s mother warns him about the temptations that could corrupt a king—especially immoral women and drunkenness (v.3–7).
  • The king is called to stand for justice, defend the poor, and speak up for those without a voice (v.8–9).

📌 Application: Leaders should exercise self-control, integrity, and advocate for justice.


🟢 2. The Virtuous Woman (Verses 10–31)

This section is an acrostic poem (each verse begins with a letter of the Hebrew alphabet) describing the ideal woman’s character and works.


🟠 Character and Value (vv. 10–12)

“A good wife is a secure treasure.” (v.10)
“She brings him good, not harm, all her life long.” (v.12)

  • Her value is far above jewels.
  • She is trustworthy and brings good to her family.

🟠 Diligence and Provision (vv. 13–19)

“She finds wool and flax and busily spins it.” (v.13)
“She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.” (v.19)

  • She works hard and creatively to provide for her family.
  • She manages resources wisely and with skill.

🟠 Strength and Service (vv. 20–27)

“She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.” (v.20)
“She is clothed with strength and dignity.” (v.25)

  • She is compassionate and generous.
  • She carries herself with strength, dignity, and confidence.
  • She speaks wisdom and kindness.

🟠 Family and Reputation (vv. 28–31)

“Her children stand and bless her.” (v.28)
“Charm can deceive and beauty can fade, but a woman who fears the LORD will be praised.” (v.30)

  • She is honored by her family and community.
  • True beauty comes from fearing the LORD and living with integrity.

🔑 Key Themes in Proverbs 31

ThemeWhat It Teaches
Wise Leadership Requires Self-ControlLeaders must avoid temptation and protect the vulnerable.
Virtue Outweighs RichesTrue value is found in godly character, not material wealth.
Diligence and Wisdom in WorkHard work and wise management bless family and community.
Strength and Compassion Go TogetherA godly woman is both strong and kind.
Fear of the LORD is the Source of HonorReverence for God shapes true beauty and lasting praise.

🙌 Life Application from Proverbs 31

✔️ For Leaders:

  • Exercise self-control, justice, and advocacy for the needy.

✔️ For Women:

  • Cultivate virtue, diligence, kindness, and fear of God.
  • Understand your true value comes from God, not outward appearances.

✔️ For Everyone:

  • Honor and appreciate those who embody these godly traits.
  • Seek to be people of wisdom, integrity, and loving service in your daily lives.

📜 Affirmation from Proverbs 31

“I seek to live with strength and dignity, working diligently and speaking with wisdom. I honor God above all, and I value true beauty—character and faithfulness. I will defend the weak and lead with integrity.”